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Sep. 18th, 2025 08:21 am
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Got home to M being very stressed about his college transcript not arriving yet. He left as soon as I was there so he could go down to the school in person and hopefully expedite things. After talking to the registrar's office, the short answer was, "no, we can't expedite electronic transcripts, and we haven't even processed your request yet." But, in a stroke of luck, he went down to visit some of his old professors, and one of them, who is now a dean, said, "screw them, I'll do it," and wrote him a letter of verification on the spot and sent him his transcripts. So, hooray! As soon as he was back home he sent everything over to HR, so hopefully that is all over and done with now.

I had finished cooking dinner by the time M got home, so the rest of the evening was pretty quiet overall, with the exception of being headbutted like a goat while trying to change Kate, and her biting my finger when I wouldn't let her get into the silverware drawer. -_- She didn't go down for bed easily, either, and was finally asleep after 9pm, which is way too late for her. And for me. 

And then she was up at 4:30 this morning. -_- We did our morning routine, I changed her and fed her breakfast, she played for a little while, and then she wanted to go back to bed at around 6. At that point there was no reason for me to go back to bed just to lay there for an hour before my alarm went off, so I had some breakfast myself and watched some YouTube. I made her a second breakfast plate for when she woke up later, took out a ham to defrost for dinner, and then left for work. 

Today is going to be very, very long. Thankfully, dinner is just going to be a bunch of really easy stuff, so it shouldn't be too much work. Fingers crossed that the baby goes down easily for bed, so I can get some decent catchup sleep tonight.

Tomorrow is Kate's second speech therapy appointment. Hopefully things go well.

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Sep. 17th, 2025 08:46 am
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Feeling the pinch this week before our paycheck on Friday, so it's back to cooking until we get paid. Ingredients in the house are low, so dinner was hamburgers. I had planned some roasted sweet potatoes as a side since we didn't have fries or regular potatoes, but when I pulled them out of the bin I discovered they all had foot-long sprouts coming out of them, so they went into the trash instead. 

Kate ate all the cheese off the top of her hamburger patty and then ignored the meat. XP I supplemented her and M's dinners with some frozen potstickers, which seems to satisfy them both. 

Serbian pork for dinner tonight, since I have all the ingredients for that. 

Besides cooking dinner, the rest of the evening was pretty quiet. Kate was in a much better mood, except for a few small fusses about wanting to brush her teeth, which is her new favorite activity. She went down easily for the night, which was a relief. 

M heard back from HR at New Job, and all they need is a verification of employment letter and his college transcripts, and all this should be done with. The letter has been obtained, we're just waiting on the transcripts now. I know M will be massively relieved when all this is over with and he can put in his notice at Current Job. 

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Sep. 16th, 2025 08:58 am
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Woke up feeling miserable yesterday, and did not improve.

M went to take a nap pretty much as soon as I got home, which was not helpful. Baby had many, many tantrums, was hitting everyone, tried to bite me again, and finally went to bed a little early, which gave me a very needed break. M woke up about 30 minutes after Kate went to bed, which gave me a chance to run out and find some dinner. Once I was back, M headed out to do laundry, and I went to bed and passed out.

There's been a hiccup with M's background check for New Job, and he's stressing about it. For a good chunk of his early 20s, he was self-employed, and they're asking for tax documents to prove it. The problem is that part of that time was before they started filing taxes or had a DBA or anything like that, and they were still in high school; they were just two dudes making video games before they became a bonafide company, so there are no tax documents. He's discussing things with New Job's HR to see what he can provide to prove he was working then, so hopefully this all gets smoothed over soon.

Gestational diabetes test came back all clear, though I am a bit anemic, so I'll be adding an iron supplement to my daily handful of pills. Maybe that's why I feel so rundown all the time.

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Sep. 15th, 2025 08:39 am
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Saturday was a very busy day.  Had to get up early to get to LabCorp as soon as they opened so I could do my stupid gestational diabetes test. They give you a sugar drink then wait an hour to draw your blood, so it was a lot of sitting and waiting for just a few minutes of actual stuff to do. Got there at 8AM as the doors opened and it was already packed, and didn't leave until nearly 10. Blah. 

Once I was home, M went back to bed and I took over baby duty. She was in pretty good spirits and just sort of ran around for a couple of hours, then went down for a nap. I waited as long as I could before waking M again, then left at 2 to meet my sister for a movie. Saw the latest Conjuring movie. I didn't expect a masterpiece or anything, but I at least thought it could be a schlocky fun time. Unfortunately, it was just inexcusably boring. Even when they do finally get around to doing the damned exorcism during the last 20 minutes of the film, it was just so predictable and dull. Do not recommend. 

Got home to M in the middle of a cleaning whirlwind, which I got involuntarily swept up in. It was mostly just tidying up and taking out trash, which came to an abrupt end when we discovered that all the dumpsters in our complex had disappeared. 

After that, we packed up the baby and headed over to Carter's to get Kate some new shoes. It was a quick errand, and then M surprised me by suggesting we go out to dinner, so we went over to La Madeleine. It was Kate's first real restaurant outing where she wasn't tiny and asleep the entire time, and she did very well. She got some scrambled eggs and some cheesy pasta, and was very good about just sitting and eating and not disturbing anyone. Very proud of her.

The outing was enough to tucker her out, so she went to bed as soon as we got home. I finally got in a shower, and then headed to bed myself.

Sunday was a normal at-home day. Kate was well behaved in the morning, but as soon as she got up from her nap it was tantrum city for the rest of the day. -_- I know that's just the developmental stage that she's at, but good lord. By the end of the day I was just completely worn out, and my mood plummeted when she decided to throw her dinner into the cat litter. Then she dumped out the last of the cat food, and the cat's water bowl, and I was DONE and just put her to bed. 

Woke up this morning with a headache. At least it should be a slow day and I don't really have to concentrate too hard on anything.

Taking a FB break for a little while. So entirely sick of seeing stuff about Charlie Kirk. He was awful, he is dead, let's please relegate him to the trash can of memory where he belongs.

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Sep. 12th, 2025 08:57 am
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Lunch break yesterday was quiet. The baby had already been asleep for some time when I got home, so I reheated some pizza for lunch, made M a sandwich, made the baby a plate for when she woke up, put away the clean dishes, ate, and then headed back to work. Pretty nice!

Of course, that meant that our evening was a bit rocky. Kate had taken a very long nap, from 9am-1pm, and so hadn't napped again. As the night wore on she had more and more tantrums, the silliest of which was when she brought me a bag of bread, I gave her a slice of bread, and well, that was unacceptable. She asked for Teeth, so we brushed our teeth, and then she kept saying Teeth, so I gave her some Motrin in case her new canines were bothering her, and then tried to usher her to bed, which initiated another meltdown. 

She likes to pet the cats when she's feeling bad, so I took her back to the living room where she snuggled Tibby for a little while, and then I was finally able to get her to go to bed of her own volition, and she fell asleep almost immediately, only 30 minutes past her bedtime.

Unfortunately, M wanted to go out and get some late dinner, so I had to sneak into the bedroom to get his wallet and keys, and ended up waking her up accidentally. I thought I'd gotten away, too, but about five minutes after shutting the door I heard her going "uh-oh!" I had just been planning to go to bed myself, too. -_- 

Since she wasn't upset, just awake, we transferred her to her crib so M and I could go to bed ourselves. Through the monitor we could hear her babbling and giggling, so she was fine, and eventually she fell back to sleep on her own. 

M and I stayed up far too late chatting in bed, so I only managed about 6 hours of sleep before my alarm went off. Groggy today and bit headachy, so I'm glad it's Friday and I can pretty much just coast. Looking very forward to sleeping in tomorrow.

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Sep. 11th, 2025 09:57 am
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Quiet evening at home. Leftover pizza for dinner, no chores or projects were done, just did some flash cards with Kate and watched some TV. She had another night where she didn't get to sleep until very late, and I'm worried this may be her new sleep pattern. I need those couple of hours after she's in bed so I can actually relax! 

Late to bed and awake early this morning. She started babbling and making noise right around when my alarm went off. I didn't go in right away, but did my morning hygiene uninterrupted since she wasn't distressed, then I got her up and made her some breakfast, woke M to take over, got dressed, and headed out the door. Poor girl had a meltdown when she saw me grab my work bag, which made me just want to stay home with her. 

In other news, the terrible secretary who tried to get me in trouble a few months back for "coming and going as she pleases", and who was under actual investigation herself for canoodling with a married supervisor, has been demoted again, to 3rd shift clerk. They've stuck her on a shift where no one that has to deal with her now will have to see or interact with her. Hehehehe. 

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Sep. 10th, 2025 08:29 am
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For the first time in a while, I didn't feel physically terrible yesterday. Tried to take advantage of it by tackling some long overdue chores. I managed to iron a handful of house and work dresses, so I finally have readily available clothing again, hooray! I also managed to put away our clean dishes and finish washing what was in the sink, so the kitchen is squared away, as well. The kitchen is always my nemesis, so it was a huge relief to have that done.

M, predictably, did not take the news of the Toyota acting up well. I took the Jeep to work after coming home for lunch so as not to tax the Toyota, but he wasn't able to look at the car after work because he had to meet a notary to sign his i-9 for New Job. Hopefully he'll be able to look at it in the next few days, and fingers crossed that it's not a big deal.

Pizza for dinner. The baby very quickly acquired the word "pizza" and said it very excitedly several times. XD

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Sep. 9th, 2025 09:46 am
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Extremely tired. Had an awful night's sleep, then a stupid day at work, then chores after work. M took a nap as soon as I got home, so I had no backup, either. -_- Thankfully, the baby stayed mostly occupied by her flash cards, and she finally said the word "light" correctly, hooray!

Once M woke up, he went out and picked up our grocery order. When he got home, I filed everything away, and the baby helped by finding the container of grapes and eating as many as she could before I stored them away. XP 

Baby decided to have one of her nights, and didn't get to sleep until nearly 10. -_- I was already dead tired from a terrible night's sleep, so I'd been hoping to get her down on time and then crawl into bed, myself. Nope, she had other plans. She finally went to sleep, I took a shower, ate an ice cream sandwich and some chicken nuggets, and then collapsed into bed.

Had another terrible night's sleep, I think I've maybe just hit that part of my pregnancy where sleep is going to be difficult no matter what. Feeling very dead today.

Been keeping up with Dracula Daily, which emails you each chapter of the novel as it happens in real time. Van Helsing has just made his appearance, and good lord I'd forgotten how obnoxious he is on the page. XP 

Nosy Lieutenant and Good Lieutenant have been switched back to their old positions, hooray! Of course, that doesn't stop NL from coming up to the watch office dozens of times during the day for no reason whatsoever. (She hates the position that she's actually assigned to, so she makes every excuse to not do her actual work and come up and play shift Lt instead.)

Car is acting up again. The oil light is flickering, not flashing but flickering, and the engine started making rattling sounds this morning. When I go home for lunch, I'm going to switch out and drive the Jeep so I don't tax the Toyota's engine before we can oil it back up. ~sigh~ I'd really like all these little problems to just chill for a minute.

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Sep. 8th, 2025 08:56 am
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Pretty good weekend, aside from being a little blue, likely from hormones. Nothing terribly exciting happened, it was mostly just chilling at home. The baby is getting better with her words and is using some of the tools we bought her. We got her a pack of flashcards with animals and colors on them, and as soon as I got home on Friday she wanted to play with them, which is promising. I got her to say "nose" and "dry" over the weekend, and hopefully those words will stick. We're working on her "L" sounds, too, since she seems to have a bit of trouble with the word "light."

M spent Saturday out with friends, catching a movie, Caught Stealing, which he recommends highly. He called it "the American Snatch", which is high praise from him. 

After that he had to spend time collecting documents to submit for New Job's background check, which had him mildly stressed since some of the papers they needed were lost in the fire and we haven't gotten around to replacing them yet. Thank goodness for old scans saved in the cloud.

We'd been eating off a big pot of beef stew for the entire weekend, and by Sunday night we were both completely tired of it, so M went out and got us a couple of sandwiches, which was a nice change. After dinner, I had to attack the dish pile in the kitchen, which was completely out of control, and two hours later I had it...mostly done. By then it was 11pm, and I was completely done with the day, so the rest will just have to wait. At least the worst of it was taken care of.

M is taking vacation for the next two weeks, since Capital One doesn't appear to pay out leftover vacation time when you leave. Since it's use it or lose it, he's using it, and since he doesn't start New Job until the 28th, then he can put in his 2 Weeks once vacation is over and it will run right up to his new start day. I'm glad he'll get a break before starting New Job, he's been so stressed these past few months!

Sometime next week I need to go get my gestational diabetes test, where I drink sugar water and they test my glucose. I remember it going pretty quickly last time, so I may be able to squeeze it in over a lunch break. 

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Sep. 5th, 2025 08:34 am
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Got official word - M got the job! HR called with the official offer, explained benefits, yadda, yadda, so yay! His first day will be September 28th because they want to get him in there in time to qualify for this year's bonus. Extra yay!

Next step for us is figuring out the logistics of his new job's workload, caring for Kate, when I should come home, etc. We've both agreed that I should attempt to keep working up until I give birth, but that entirely depends on how involved this new position is, how my health goes in the next few months, etc. There's a lot of stuff we just have to wait-and-see on. Whatever happens, our lives are going to look very different by next year, which is a good thing!

Another good, if smaller, bit of news, we are finally getting our mail again! The post office had stopped delivering to our complex because there had been so many mailbox break-ins, but I guess that's been resolved because we had mail yesterday! One of the letters was a bill (boo) but another was a book for Kate (yay!) so it all balanced out.

Felt well enough last night to make a big pot of beef stew, which will last us for the next few days. This weekend I'm going to try and catch up on chores, because the dish pile is out of control, and I'm tired of tripping over the laundry pile in the bedroom every single damned day. M has also requested pumpkin bread for this weekend, so I'll bake up a couple of loaves to celebrate the good news and the cooler weather.

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